taken from elle.com (yes, i have the time to read these kinds of articles :P) ati2 panjang...
interesting topic, i have no idea if this happens in asia or the eastern world (since the writer lives in the western hemisphere of the earth). but, really .. in the east .. we can still find a lot of woman who is REAL woman, who wants to be cuddled, cooked for, loved, heard, cared for, and relationship is more than just sex. the western men, cant find them anymore, well maybe only in the writer's perspective.
OOT : that man being the new woman, reminds me of the marketing techniques by Hermawan Kertajaya, "Marketing in Venus".
i think its nice for man to be a bit 'womanly', if they want to have serious relationship, its VERY ok, its a positive attitude. au contraire, i totally disagrees with women in that western hemisphere... i mean, i dont think that that kind of relationship is healthy. and those women are going waaaaayy out from what theyre suppose to be ... they really shouldnt say things like 'i can earn my own money, so i am as powerful as you are (male), so i can do what i want including having relationship with male, only for sex, and i dont want to get attached' *yes i'm classic and old-fashioned type of girl, and i'm proud of it* but for women, its ok to manage your own freedom, but i dont think thats the way to freedom. youre never get that true freedom by doing that.
why do those women do that?
maybe theyre afraid of relationship itself? afraid to get attached? *padahal kalo di asia, justru sebaliknya*
yakin kalo have a serious relationship (attached) == losing freedom, and they can no longer be themselves? because the cowoks will rule them through relationship itu? wah .. sayang betul ..
or maybe its a result of trauma? growing up and see that women are hurt by men. *remember that song? wanita di jajah pria sejak dulu.. :D* so woman act like that to avoid being hurt again (by man). and they sneered and suuzhon duluan every time theres a guy who wants to have a serious relationship. padahal g yakin betul ga semua cowo kaya gitu ... *remember that dangdut song : tidak semuaaaa .. laki-lakiii .... :D" *suuzon tidak baik*
kalo alasannya belom siap sih, especially utk marriage, karena ini serius, dan butuh persiapan yang bener2 matang.. yaa satu2nya cara ... yaa .. siap2in .. *mo gimana lagi? but gimana siap2nya ya?* ..
morale of the story (kali...):
buat co : jangan nyakitin cewe, ntar rugi ndiri. dihindari oleh cewe2. kalo bukan generasi sekarang, generasi yang nanti.
buat ce : jangan suuzon lah ... who knows that he's 'him'... :D *emang ga boleh suuzon ke siapapun*
posted by wida @ 12:13 PM
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