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pasangan?

hmmm .. waktu itu ada temen iseng2 nglempar wacana 'post 25th syndrome' (ini buat isengan aja, g ga tau ada beneran pa engga). g nanya, apa tuh? dia bilang sebelom 25, orang ga gitu ambil pusing tentang urusan cari pasangan. tapi begitu dia mendekati umur 25 dan setelahnya, dia bakal agak2 panicked, kalo kumpul ma temen2 (biasanya yang sebaya) bakal ngomongin everything about lawan jenis, marriage, dan kejombloan :D (apalagi kalo kebetulan dia dan temen2nya jombloh jugah).

dan kmaren ifat nyebar undangan (heehehee... congrats yah girl!). dan beberapa orang temen gwe nyeletuks 'wah, keduluan deh gue'. see, theyre start to think about marriage. that's good, really. for something really important like marriage, one should think about it throughly, in and out. the problem is, finding that right someone to spend the rest of your life with, proven to be really tricky issue. orang yang lu pikir lu kenal luar dalem, could suddenly have decided to change his/her personality after saying 'I do'. some people even have a trouble in starting a conversation. jadi inget slogan baru iklan rokok A mild, kalo mo ketemu, ngobrol dong. kalo ngga ngobrol, mana bisa tau tu orang ternyata adalah 'the one'. tapi katanya kalo cowo sering bisa langsung tau ya? *bener ga sih?*. ntar ternyata, the-so-called-jodoh, ternyata adalah temen lama yang udah bertahun2 ga ketemu, sahabat selama bertahun2 *jadi inget upit dan idan*, ato justru tetangga depan rumah yang sebelum2nya ga gitu kenal.

jadi mikir, temen g banyak loh yang jomblo, cewe cowo, dan pasti deh nyari2 "that some one". jangan2 diantara mereka ada yang cocok, cuman ga tau aja, karena ngga ngeh aja ato karena belom pernah ngobrol lebih jauh. hmmm.. hmmm.. ^_^;;. a friend in her mail said, marriage is about growing up together and compromise (.. and i should add communication >______<) and a friend said, marriage is about accepting the partner as he/she is. no more, no less.

~IMHO.. notmarriedyetthough :D

posted by wida @ 10:34 AM